All right, so I understand it as "if the soccermom wants to, she can go through the fanfiction for her sun looking for labels and picking out the ones as she sees fit," but it is troubling that it if this argument shall be used, that it seems to imply doing more for the soccermom in segregating or obscuring such labeled material from the rest. I understand it as respecting the soccermom and not forcing her for anything, which is not tantamount to respecting her ideas, but at the same time it would be troubling if one did more than just labeling it which can be nothing other than respecting her ideas.